I had my doubts when I started blogging, and I had doubts when my therapist suggested to start a journal… You can read about that previous post here.
So many things have passed in my since my missed opportunity at a seasonal job… But I did managed to write on my journal, as promised my therapist did not insist on reading it. Which I’m very glad. As for what I started writing there was hard. I opened up in the first pages and I almost pulled out those pages. It was not easy to write them, and it was not easy to read them. But I felt hope; somehow that even though I have been threw a lot, I’m still here… And that was enough.
As for the job, my therapist said; “Don’t be so hard on yourself! It was not meant for you. When things are for you, no matter what you do; nothing will get in your way” . Then she asked me “Besides are you really ready to work? Do you feel okay with it”? That left me thinking and I pulled my journal and wrote, “Am I really ready for a job? Dealing with people, emotions, drama etc.? Do I have the strength and will to handle situations?
But going back on what my therapist asked, I felt angry. I wanted her to feel some sympathy at least, her job is to help me heal and comfort me. Why couldn’t she put herself in my shoes for a moment? Of course she wouldn’t understand; she has a great job, she earns a lot. Then I asked myself does she even care at all? Can I trust her? I know she tried to give me a {Little advice} but I did not felt it was the moment. Then here I go again thinking that I expect too much of people.
I’m still writing in my journal, but I don’t know how I feel about my therapist anymore… Should I confront here? Or should I just simple change her? Let me know below…
Aww I am so sorry you felt she wasn’t in your court on this one. Its hard sometimes with therapists. I think you should speak to her about it if you felt dismissed or upset. I have had some conflicts with my recent therapist but I am glad I stayed. I hope you feel better about her soon.
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On my next session I will, But I don’t want to feel like I resent her.
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